[Strangerous]

If you carry it onto her property, YES.
If you meet in a neutral locale, NO.
If you want her to know, YES.
If you don't want her to know, NO.

 

[Strangerous]

Well I don't go into her condo so the property problem is moot and I'm kind indeferent about telling her it's the question of do I have to? And can she cause problems if she knows

Do you have to tell your neighbor, your kid's teacher(s), your Parents, or your pastor? NO.
I see no reason you must tell her about it since you will not carry on her property.
Does anyone else with an opposite view of this?