I am looking at a CF-380 for my wife. It will be used by her as a home defense gun and a range gun. She currently has a Taurus PT22, but wants something a little bigger. She does not want much recoil and she has weak hands. I have the following question: 1. How strong is the recoil on the 380? 2. How hard is the trigger pull on the 380? (She has fired my 995 TS carbine, and does not like that trigger pull) 3. How hard is it to "rack" the slide? Thanks for your help.