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morning guys on another forum a guy found out his wife of 4 years is cheating on him .and all i read was leave the slut and take all the money and run what happened to trying 2 fix the problem and make it better if you can
 

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Bringing it to another forum is bad form as well. Amounts to nothing more than gossip.

That said, I full well believe that anyone in a marriage should do anything and everything to try and save it until there is no light at the end of the tunnel.
 

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I'd leave her once I loose trust I"ll never trust her again; loyalty is very important in a relationship. If a person truly cares about you then they will not cheat.

Just my .02 cents
 

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It's trust.

If you can't trust someone. You can't respect them. You can't have a relationship with someone you can't respect.

If you can't trust them enough to treat you with respect, you will never have a relationship. You will have cohabitation. Or a roommate to whom you say I love you.

Once someone cheats, it is my opinion and experience, that they will cheat again. OR that they will never respect the person they cheated on.
How could they. They cheated on you, and you took them back. That means mostly two things. Either you were too weak to stop them from cheating, or you couldn't live without them and they pretty much own you, again, making you the weak one.

I'm not saying the cheated on person is weak. I just mean that the cheater really only has a couple ways to look at it.

Of course they could always see it as They were too weak in the first place. But a person so self involved as to cheat to begin with, probably doesn't consider their own actions as anything other than correct at the moment.

I don't cheat, so if someone cheats on me, they are gone.

If I want to cheat. I don't. I go home and tell the woman I am with, that I want to have more sex or more interesting sex or that I just don't wanna be with her anymore.

We can talk about it, and we can work on it, or she can pack.

It's faster, easier, and so much more "clean" that way. Sure it isn't gonna be pleasant, but it's still 1000 times better than all the crap you have to go through to cheat.

And NEVER, EVER marry a stipper, until after she stops stripping. EVER!!!
 

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Once youre married and the other person cheats, thats it, its over. If that person cared enough for you and for the marriage that you have, they wouldnt have cheated in the first place. If after I get married and my wife decides to cheat, I'm gone. I already told her that. I'm too old to put up with that kind of BS and I won't.
 

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asking for an opinion, OK. posting another mans marital problems on the internet, not OK.

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ROFLMAO!!! For the REALZ!!!
 

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If my woman ever cheats, I'm sure everyone will miss her very much.

But they'll never find her.....

JUST KIDDING!!! That was just a joke. It sounded soo tough though, you know! I couldn't help it. Like the two black eyes joke.
What do you tell a woman with two black eyes?
NOTHIN, She already been told twice!!!

You know! Just one of those like Grrrrr super tough jokes! Like you gotta growl at it instead of laugh!!!
 

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And NEVER, EVER marry a stipper, until after she stops stripping. EVER!!!

Have you ever met a stripper Butterbones?

I have! I worked at one for 6 years. Yes some good and some bad. Many of them are married [happily] and are only stripping cause their husbands are unemployed or unable to work due to illness. And a lot are single moms who are making a living to raise their kids.

Yes some can be the easiest things around BUT unless where they work is a dive they are just ordinary women.
 

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And NEVER, EVER marry a stipper, until after she stops stripping. EVER!!!

Have you ever met a stripper Butterbones?

I have! I worked at one for 6 years. Yes some good and some bad. Many of them are married [happily] and are only stripping cause their husbands are unemployed or unable to work due to illness. And a lot are single moms who are making a living to raise their kids.

Yes some can be the easiest things around BUT unless where they work is a dive they are just ordinary women.
Of course you did!!!

And sympathy for strippers technically makes you a socialist!

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I'll just say that yes yes indeed. I've known many.
 

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Ordinary? Hardly, the two I dated back in my wild days were anything but ordinary. Pretty good women but both had issues. But then who doesnt?
 
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