since i am a new gun owner (pistol that is) from wat ive seen from friends and family is that their guns came apart very easy. well wat i see on my 40 its not so easy . wat to use to clean and basically how? i dont feel comfortable takeing it apart. its not like my friends lugar 9mm were came apart very easy 123 . the 40 seems very hmmm how do i say not easy. some input or info were to go see how. would be great .