Sounds like they're whiskey gripping the pistol to try and fight the recoil. I've got big hands with long enough thumbs to reach the trigger and I've never experienced those issues. Not even when shooting left handed and covering the mag release with my palm.
Tell your friends to relax their grip and point their thumbs at the target instead of trying to use them to grip the pistol. The fingers are fully able to keep the pistol from falling out of their hands. It's supposed to be a push/pull grip, not a stranglehold.
I would put money on them squeezing their grip hand thumb as they're firing, causing the mag drops...
Push: The "V" of the grip hand thumb, in conjuction with the wrist, should support the frame and weight of the pistol while the fingers are lightly wrapped around the grip and only there to keep it in place. The thumb should point towards the target and not wrap around the grip.
Pull: The off hand covers the grip hand to further support the weight and mitigate recoil.
Tell your friends to relax their grip and point their thumbs at the target instead of trying to use them to grip the pistol. The fingers are fully able to keep the pistol from falling out of their hands. It's supposed to be a push/pull grip, not a stranglehold.
I would put money on them squeezing their grip hand thumb as they're firing, causing the mag drops...
Push: The "V" of the grip hand thumb, in conjuction with the wrist, should support the frame and weight of the pistol while the fingers are lightly wrapped around the grip and only there to keep it in place. The thumb should point towards the target and not wrap around the grip.
Pull: The off hand covers the grip hand to further support the weight and mitigate recoil.