This one might be hard for a lot of people, but my wife's cousin and I have been having discussions this for months. My point of view is f'em, if they are not willing to contribute they are on their own. Bill being more christian than I am ( not at all to be honest just wanted to let you all know) wants to help them if they show up. Now if they are willing to work and help I will give them the benefit of the doubt, but if they are not willing to chip in and help my position is kick them in the ass and tell them to go someplace else. Am I being a ass or do I at least have a moral defensible position.