my wife had to go to a local one day surgery place to have a cist removed from her back. Upon intake as the nurse was checking her vitals for intake she notices a cluster of moles on my wifes back she makes the comment that she should have someone look at those. Since they have been there for as long as i've known her and we've been together for 15 years we didn't really think anything of it. Well the nurse remembered and brought it up to the surgeon as he was meeting with my wife. He opted to remove 2 of the 3 moles from her back. We left there and went home thought nothing more of them other than me doing the vast majority of everything around the house including baby care. When she went back in to fallow up with her dr and have her stitches removed the pathology of the moles came back as melanoma. Back in for surgery to remove even more tissue around the origional area and remove another mole . We are waiting now on the pathology on this second round of surgery to come back. Hoping all is well but we are very grateful for a nurse who stepped in and said something instead of just doing the bare minimum work required. Since they had to remove so much tissue from her back she's unable to reach forward with both arms so I've gotten a frash course on how to be a single mom this month and it really really sucks.