Ok so I sold my laptop a week ago due to Christmas being a few months away I knew for the kids sake we could use the extra cash. So I am sharing my wife's computer now. Two days ago I found that she was talking to her ex fiance about how she wishes things were different and how much she misses him. He talks about being lonely now that he doesn't have a girl friend again. Mind you this is someone who can't keep a job for more then a few months and when they were together he sat at home while she went to work at Giant Eagle 8 months pregnant. So far I haven't said anything because I just don't know what to say at this point. This wouldn't be a tough call to make if it wasn't for the three kids I don't want them to see me and her fight over this because that is what it will be because I know she is going to say that it isn't her fault. Well first she will deny and lie about it until I tell her she forgot to close the screen a few nights ago and that IM logging is turned on for AIM. She deletes his screen name after talking to him it turns out. Anyway I know this sounds silly as hell to be posting but I don't know what the heck to do because I don't want to get into a fight in front of the kids but I am not going to sit by and let her talk to him and who knows what happens in a month or so. Maybe some one here has been in a similar situation and still has their marriage intact?